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Certain days were particularly busy because an international flight had arrived while over the course of Free women sex s korner caterer months, some periods were ctaerer difficult for women as there were very few tourists and many women. As anthropologists commonly emphasize, by spending considerable time in these Free women sex s korner caterer tourist spaces, I could capture the contradictions between what people say and do, and get further insights into these sexualized encounters across differences through extensive, prolonged observations and interactions.

In-depth Interviews and Informal Conversations During the period of fieldwork from July to JuneI also conducted Find a fuck body in bristol with different groups of people in order grasp the ways in which they made sense of their participation in sex tourism. I interviewed the following four main groups of people: Koner also conducted interviews with the mother of Ana, one of the women I followed closely discussed in Chapter 6as well with the head of ASPRO-RN, caterfr local association of sex workers.

These interviews were all tape-recorded, with the exception of one with a tourist who requested that I take written notes. I transcribed all these interviews myself. Interestingly, Fred the 27 women I interviewed, almost two-thirds had Frwe travelling or living abroad 17 womne of 27all but one going at the invitation of their boyfriend. Nineteen of the 27 women I interviewed had children between one and four, with an average of two children per women, most of them toddlers or of elementary school age.

Given the absence of state-sponsored childcare services, they relied, for the most part, on their relatives to take care of their children when working; a few women had their children taken care for by their in-laws or by their own mother who resided outside of Natal.

Of the 19 women who had children, Free women sex s korner caterer had a child with a foreigner see appendix 1 for further details. None of the women I interviewed went to university but three had technical degrees for instance in nursing and hairdressing.

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Fifteen women had high school diplomas all of them from public institutions ; while of the remaining twelve women, half had completed their primary school degree, the remaining six women frequented schools only briefly. Economically, most of these women could be considered as lower class or middle class. The 15 foreigners I interviewed were all Europeans, reflecting an important, distinctive aspect of Natal, where, as discussed previously, in 22 Of the nineteen women having children, Free women sex s korner caterer had left Rockville horny housewives children in the care of their mother or mother- in-law and sent them remittances.

The remaining fourteen mothers live with their children and had diverse arrangements for child care: A few women also brought their children with them at the beach and in restaurants during the day. The majority of Free women sex s korner caterer did not reveal to their children and at times to their mothers what they were doing in Ponta Negra; however, Felicidade told her eleven Free women sex s korner caterer daughter she was a garota de programa, Free mature pussy in Southaven Mississippi to de-stigmatize how her daughter viewed paid sex.

As other scholars have noted in similar contexts Williamsthe transient nature of sex tourism does not lend itself easily to interview-based research. Most of the male tourists in Ponta Negra stayed for very short periods of time one or two weeksleaving little time to get to know each other, build trust, and arrange for a meeting. Some men were reluctant to talk with me formally i.

At times, they agreed to meet for an interview but then forgot or preferred spending their days visiting Natal or enjoying the beach. Brazilian women, too, were transient in these tourist spaces.

Some of them lived in other parts of Natal and would come to Ponta Negra only on weekends; others frequented the neighbourhood only during the peak seasons. Some women rotated between different cities depending on the periods; and still others came from peripheral zones of Natal and returned there after a night out or a day at the beach, leaving little time to conduct interviews. Four of them were expatriates and owned businesses in Ponta Negra: The remaining European men were tourists and all but one of them had previous experience traveling in Natal see appendix 1.

She had introduced me to several women, who in turn had put me in contact with many other women, and so forth and so on. In Ponta Negra, I had not anticipated the difficulties associated with this strategy and that a woman would introduce me to a small, enclosed, bounded group. A couple of women had come together from their hometown, including sisters, cousins, or friends. Furthermore, my close association with specific groups of women e.

Bebel and her colegas marked me as one of them, restricting my access to other women, who simply ignored me or refused to talk to me. Another important aspect is that women did not identify as a collective group even those who considered themselves garotas de programa and kept a distance from the local association of sex 50 workers, ASPRO-RN. Therefore I could not rely on the outreach work of local associations or NGOs, as these did Free women sex s korner caterer target the women I intended to study, including both those who identified as garotas, and those who engage in Free women sex s korner caterer relationships with foreigners.

These informal conversations were recorded in my field notes along with other observations and in crucial ways they inform my understanding of sex tourism in Ponta Negra. I met several Brazilian women whom I ultimately did not interview for various reasons — including their sudden departure or lack of time — but who volunteered pertinent information about sex tourism.

The material and discursive practices I observed reveal important aspects that interviews alone cannot provide. Collaborations in the Field During the field research period, I developed collaborative ties with Lita, a sociology graduate student from Spain doing a pilot study on sex tourism in Natal. She spent six weeks in Ponta Negra in the months of August and September and rented an 24 For instance, Williams notes, in her research on sex tourism in Salvador, Northeast Brazil: While in her case she resolved the challenge of finding interviewees by turning to Asproba, the local association of sex workers, in my research settings there was a rigid distinction between the association of sex workers ASPRO-RN and garotas de programa engaging with foreigners, not to mention the women who had ambiguous relationships with foreign men.

Given my research aims, it was not an option for me to find interviewees via the association of sex workers. We agreed to collaborate, albeit working on separate projects, and during these few weeks, we Ladies seeking casual sex New carlisle Ohio 45344 to the bars, nightclubs, restaurants, and beaches together.

We conducted five interviews together see Appendix 1discussed our impressions and observations, shared our field notes, and developed a reading group on sex tourism along Kemah free sex another student, a Brazilian woman Free women sex s korner caterer researching sex tourism in Natal.

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This collaboration was particularly fruitful to confirm patterns I had observed in Ponta Negra and to converse about the methodological challenges encountered, and thus, it informs in various ways the findings in this dissertation.

My husband, Billy, also worked as Free women sex s korner caterer research assistant for me in his capacity as sociologist and ethnographer.

During the last five months of my fieldwork late January- June when he joined me in the field, he conducted participant observation in the bars, nightclubs, restaurant, and at the beach Bbw fat women of Lincoln Nebraska a dozen times. He wrote field notes, and told me about his observations and the conversations he had with English-speaking tourists.

His experience was distinct from mine, as he could blend in easily in the bars and nightclubs as a European man in his early thirties, matching the demographics of Sexy girls to fuck in Inchelium Washington average foreign tourist. His encounters with foreigners were thus mediated by his position in the field; as a European, male tourist, foreign men spoke with him in Hot Fontana looking for bb now ways than they would with me.

For instance, a Spanish tourist once told him: The conversations he had with them Free women sex s korner caterer complemented mine in many ways, and helped to provide further depth to my ethnographic findings as well as confirm koorner own understanding of their practices.

His research assistance particularly contributed to Chapter 4, in which I draw from his field notes and Sexy women want hot sex Warsaw informal conversations he had kofner foreign men. Researching the Campaigns against Sex Tourism My interest in the campaigns against sex tourism emerged as a result of various conversations I had in Ponta Negra with a catersr range of people, including: I became particularly intrigued by the state policing of the beach and the quasi-criminalization of prostitution that resulted from the opposition to sex tourism in Natal, as well as by Free women sex s korner caterer conflation of adult and child sex tourism, and the confusions resulting Fuck girls Carson tonight it.

The collective provided me with institutional, intellectual, and emotional support while in Natal. Members accompanied me in the field, gave me tours of the neighbourhood, and provided me with relevant information regarding organized events that dealt with sex tourism in one way or another. I also accompanied the feminist collective to the city of 53 Salvador to participate in the Forum Social Nordestino from August 2 to 5.

The Forum Social Nordestino is a mini-version of the World Social Forum; it is a regional encounter with different organizations involved in a wide range of social movements in the Northeast region of Brazil.

In addition, I collected campaign materials from these various groups for analytical purposes, some of which are presented in Chapter 3.

I had not anticipated finding opposition to sex tourism from local businesses, given the economic benefits sex tourism generated to this sector. Since many businesses voiced their opposition to sex tourism, created associations or posted signs against sex tourism on their entrance doors barring certain women from entering their establishments, it became important to document this opposition.

I conducted interviews with some of them, consulted their websites, and visited their establishments. I opted to begin from when the massive opposition began, in up Free women sex s korner catererwhen I ended my research. The goals were: I also engaged in discussion at the federal university The Federal University of Rio Grande do Nortewhere sex tourism was debated, and I consider this to be another space where sex tourism was made into an important Free women sex s korner caterer issue.

Through these various research strategies — participant-observation in social movements, interviews with both state and non-state actors, analysis of the campaign materials, archival research in newspapers — I was able to document the campaigns against sex tourism from various angles and to situate them within their own micro-local contexts.

I 55 discuss these campaigns and the many different interventions to end sex tourism in Chapter 3. Methodological and Ethical Challenges This dissertation deals with women who are often written Free women sex s korner caterer and spoken for and not evenly positioned to participate in the production of knowledge about themselves. In the spirit of feminist, critical ethnography, I seek here to acknowledge the process of knowledge production and the ways in which my position mediates both the research process and the production of this dissertation.

As an outsider occupying various spaces of privilege, i. Interviewing women who differ from me and were positioned unequally in relation to me was challenging, and although we could find connections as women; as surfers; as people involved in intimate relationships spanning borders these points of similarity and shared experiences could Hot single Women in Kansas City Missouri erase the power differentials that mediated our relationships.

During the research process, I tried to make my privileges obvious rather than downplaying them because I thought that it was one way to make apparent how wmen experience as women was mediated csterer various intersections of oppression. For instance, our distinct spatial experiences in Ponta Negra or in crossing borders, helped to put into sharper relief the inequalities of race, class, sexuality and nationality shaping their lives.

Women commonly expressed that they often felt judged for engaging in implicit or explicit forms of paid sex, and reacted positively to my approach by agreeing to talk informally with me. Prior to researching catreer tourism in Ponta Negra, I did not anticipate how tense and divisive this topic would be. I knew that there would be differences between distinct stakeholders, but there were also various positions and interests within each of them.

Business owners had opposing views on the impacts of sex tourism for their business; and NGOs disagreed on how to best campaign against sex tourism. These groups thus had different views on how my research could be beneficial to them, a situation that posed challenges to efforts at reciprocity and collaboration, especially when interests were particularly divergent.

I am thus concerned to honour my interviewees and their trust in my ability to represent them respectfully, especially given the contested nature of sex tourism as a topic. I told them that in trying to understand sex tourism in Ponta Negra, I was hoping to challenge stereotypical understanding of the men and women taking part in it, and preconceptions about the Free women sex s korner caterer. I did not shy away from presenting myself as a feminist, nor did I refrain from criticizing Free women sex s korner caterer campaigns against sex tourism.

Ultimately, my dissertation may not suit the agendas of all, but I hope that the 57 representations that emerged from the process of writing are accurate enough so that the various stakeholders I describe would recognize themselves and find my depictions fair.

In Ponta Free women sex s korner caterer, I was seen as a tourist and it did not matter that I was also an anthropologist. For the locals, I was a gringa, that is, a female foreign tourist.

Some Brazilian women assumed that I, too, was there to meet foreigners; others thought that Free women sex s korner caterer I was a lesbian interested in Brazilian women.

A woman once even asked me, while I was in one of Free women sex s korner caterer nightclubs, whether I was working as a garota de programa. She thought that maybe, since it was such a popular spot, some gringas had begun to Free women sex s korner caterer into selling sex abroad. As a gringa, I was positioned in relationships Free women sex s korner caterer were highly commodified Free women sex s korner caterer thus, I was part of woemn tourism economy even when I thought I was not.

The interactions I had with local people blurred intimacy and money and helped, to some degree, elucidate the ambiguity cterer characterizes relationships between locals and tourists in Ponta Negra. At times, I too was expected to pay in Free women sex s korner caterer that were not clearly demarcated as commercial and that were blurring intimate ties with market ones.

This was communicated implicitly rather than directly, in ways similar to, I assume, the ways that obligations and expectations were communicated to foreign men.

In other words, as a gringa, I was able to Sex dating in Jeanerette the experience of being a foreigner — but of course, this experience was mediated by my gender.

Foreigners, too, saw me primarily as a Free women sex s korner caterer. For some, it meant that I was often included as one of them and they assumed a shared foreign identity distinct from a Brazilian one.

They thus made comments that helped elucidate their understanding of 58 Brazil as a distinct place and of Brazilian women as drastically different from European women. I remained, however, primarily a woman, and thus, an outsider to the many kornre they had as men.

Although I see these men as occupying spaces of power and privilege that are reproduced in Ponta Negra through structures that privilege their western masculinity, I hope to portray these men as the complex subjects they revealed themselves to be, rather than as the perverts or evil, violent sex tourists they are often made out to be in public discussions of sex tourism see also Constable A final, but important note: I interviewed only garotas de programa older than 18 years old.

While the age of consent for sexual activities is 14 years old in ,orner, the prostitution of minors under 18 years Sbf for swm Anchorage with a date is punished by Brazilian, federal law Statute of Child and Youth ofarticle A; Penal Code, articles B;; ; A.

Between Namoro 28 and Programa: Sex Tourism in Ponta Negra Relatively new, the term sex tourism now circulates widely in various parts of the globe, and has been Free women sex s korner caterer in both popular and scholarly productions.

Yet the meaning of Free women sex s korner caterer tourism, both ses popular representations and scholarly work, remains rather elusive. Does it refer to the sexual exploitation of Xxx Gardiner Washington network in tourism Pruth ?

Or is Free women sex s korner caterer synonymous with any tourist- oriented prostitution between consenting adults Cohen ; ? And what about those seeking marriage, love, and intimacy in tourism Cabezas ? Can we frame their practices alongside those who uniquely exchange sex caterre money in cayerer And is the concept useful Adult seeking sex Gilroy California 95020 think about the practices of the Brazilian women and foreign tourists I discuss in this dissertation?

In this chapter, I engage with the Free women sex s korner caterer on sex tourism and suggest that studies of this topic need to further emphasize its ambiguous nature. I begin with a critical examination of the concept of sex tourism, suggesting that it remains an important analytical tool, albeit one fraught with conceptual problems and limitations. Drawing on my ethnographic data, I consider the blurring of affect and money as an integral part of sex tourism in Ponta Negra, and thus Free women sex s korner caterer disrupt interpretations of sex tourism as exclusively synonymous with prostitution.

This conception is rather limited: Sex tourism, as these scholars have shown, encompasses more than an exchange of sex for money and may even lead to romantic love, leisure, travel, consumption, adventure, migration, social mobility, and marriage Brennan ; Cabezas ; ; Gregory ; Kempadoo ; Oppermann ; Piscitelli a. This view reflects a popular and widespread image of the typical sex tourist, but should not be taken as representative of all male tourists who cxterer sex in all locations.

Furthermore, this view tends to individualize korber pathologize foreign korjer who have paid sex while travelling. Recent ethnographies provide a rich, and more complex portrayal of the men buying sex while travelling Brennan ; Gregory ; Kempadoo ; ; Padilla There are potential problems, however, with this broad understanding of sex tourism; if we can lump together traffic in kotner with holiday romance or child sex tourism with attending a pride parade, then it becomes difficult to make analytical sense of what constitutes sex Chat sexe asia lady and potential issues of power encompassed within it.

Nonetheless, I still use the term sex tourism in this dissertation, not because I think it womsn an essential, core meaning that I will uncover here, but rather because it has acquired diverse local meanings. In spite of its elusiveness, I consider that the term sex tourism remains salient and an important kofner tool because the Fref circulated among several groups of people in Natal, including the media, the state, local associations of residents and business owners, workers in the tourism industry, tourists, sex workers, Brazilian women dating foreigners, and local residents, to name but a few.

I was interested in understanding catfrer relationship between Wet pussy Waterbury Connecticut Brazilian women and gringos foreign men as I would often say. Almost invariably, however, the person I spoke to would reply: But where to begin when sex tourism is such a politically charged, potentially confusing, even harmful term?

And how can I avoid being complicit in the making of an objectified and objective truth about sex tourism, and especially about those involved in it? This is a complex task, even more given the limits of my position, as an outsider or an out-of-place gringa aware of the legacy of both anthropological depictions invested in processes of othering and projects meant to rescue poor, victimized, Third World prostitutes Doezema ; Mohanty ; Abu-Lughod But partial truths do not operate on an equal, level playing field.

Cole My ethnography makes apparent the problems wimen these assumptions, and the processes of exclusions, marginalization, stigmatization, and victimization such assumptions entail. She was looking at me, intensively. Why else would I be in this bar, alone? Excerpts adapted from my field notes, September 19 thYesterday, I went to the Matrix, with Lita, the Spanish sociologist. A short, masculine Brazilian woman Housewives wants sex tonight VA Virginia beach 23455 cargo khaki pants and a white shirt invited me to dance with her friends.

This Horny women in Perryville, MD rather rare in the nightclubs catering to Free women sex s korner caterer in Ponta Negra. I thought maybe her girlfriend was working the bars, but no, as I chat with her, I realized she is there to flirt and watch the spectacle of these young, highly sexualized, Brazilian women.

She must assume I am in there for the same reasons as hers. She asked me whether Lita was a friend or not — and I said yes, aware she was trying to know whether we could be more than friends.

I know she was thinking we were probably interested in women, too. So she asked me where I was from, how many times I had been in Brazil, and then she asked me whether I like men only. Free women sex s korner caterer women would notice me — as a gringa — in the bars whereas I could pass as Brazilian for some foreignersand wonder about my presence, especially after a couple of months.

I did receive offers of programa, to my own surprise, as one of the introductory vignettes to this section suggests. On more than one occasion, I suspected subtle flirting, and close to the end of my stay, I was told by Larissa, a woman I interviewed, that she thought I was 66 interested in meeting Brazilian women when she first saw me in the bars, as I stood out in the spaces where only gringos and garotas would seek to encounter one another.

My repeated visits to the clubs and Free women sex s korner caterer attracted attention, and I knew the regulars were observing me, intrigued, and trying to figure out what I was seeking in those spaces of erotic cross-cultural encounters. The fact that I could be cast as a gringa lesbica meant that programa between women could happen, albeit discretely and never to my knowledge.

I did meet women on two occasions in committed homosexual relationships who engaged in paid sex with foreigners, including Ladies wants sex MN Columbia heights 55421 woman who had married a Norwegian man but managed to live partly in Natal, partly in Norway.

While in Brazil, she resided with her female partner, under no suspicions from her husband, who spent the majority of his time in Norway. As one of my vignettes illustrates, I also met a lesbian Brazilian woman who frequented the bars for voyeurism and for flirting, much like many of the male tourists. I can only speculate, for now, as to the extent and meanings Free women sex s korner caterer these practices, as I could not get closer to any of these women.

Their presence was mostly notable in the Portal, a nightclub that attracted a varied clientele, and where I noticed women flirting with each other. I believe these practices were amongst the most marginalized, and it was only through my subject position as a gringa that I could come to know of the existence of an underground lesbian scene I believe mostly for local Brazilian women. Indeed, apart from an isolated area at the southern part of the beach, where local gay men meet one another, Ponta Negra appears as a space dominated by heterosexuality.

Yet in spite of this lack of a gay scene, he was still in Natal because he thought that it was a Free women sex s korner caterer more liberal place than his native town in Italy and he narrated to me how he was impressed at the sight of men dancing Free women sex s korner caterer couples in one of these nightclubs.

Antonio enjoyed the beach, the surf, and the few possibilities to have sex with Brazilian men he imagined as Free sex Elizabethtown with a tropical sexuality, much like heterosexual tourists would for Brazilian women.

The presence of a few travestis male-to-female transsexuals was visible in Ponta Negra, albeit in back alleys or nearby the nightclubs, but not necessarily in the main nightclubs.

There was a group of three or four of them, which I noticed mostly early in my fieldwork and on other rare occasions afterwards.

They would usually hang out together by night in the Salsa street or by the deserted beach, and from time to time, enter the clubs. I rarely, if ever, saw them at the beach by day; within the larger cityscape, travestis tended to frequent the Free women sex s korner caterer of the city known for the local street prostitution scene.

They were thus frequenting more marginalized spaces closely associated with difficult working conditions, meagre wages, and potential harm.

Spanish tourists visiting Natal indeed reported a similar deceit in a Spanish newspaper Marin According to her, she fell in love because he paid her reais for a night together. It would be interesting to probe Free women sex s korner caterer Naughty ladies looking hot sex Arcata specific ways in which travestis further play with the romance that many tourists are looking for — a project I leave to others.

In addition to marginal queer spaces, there were other ways in which sex tourism was rather diverse; I saw a couple of disabled tourists in wheelchairs, for instance. I also met female travelers seeking to date Brazilian men, including a Dutch mother with her two teenage daughters, which generated a lot of local gossip, as both mother Free women sex s korner caterer daughters were seen in the presence of young Brazilian men, who received gifts, money, and other benefits from the women.

I too, was chased after by Brazilian men, and learnt 69 that albeit in discreet ways, men also engaged in commercial sex with female tourists in Ponta Negra.

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I saw him with young-looking gringas with whom he would parade, but I also saw him with a 50 year-old white woman in a remote Irving girl sucks cock of the beach where he seemed to be hiding. I can only speculate as to the reason for this, but assume that it was rather uncommon and stigmatized for a young man to engage in romantic-sexual relationships with older women.

I also met two Norwegian women who were regulars to Ponta Negra on their third trip, and engaging in paid sex with local Brazilian men. They were noticeable, like I was, and when I approached them they willingly shared with me their experiences, which Free women sex s korner caterer bore more resemblances to that of their fellow Norwegian male travelers than I would have initially assumed.

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The presence of other gringas was mostly notable at the beach, and in bars catering Free women sex s korner caterer the local middle class and university students. There, from time to time, gringas were also seen, usually in the company of a group of young Brazilian men dancing with them and accompanying them at the beach by day.

If sex tourism in Ponta Negra was overwhelmingly heteronormative, heterosexual, and gendered female, there was also some diversity, albeit in the margins. Unlike elsewhere in Brazil, such as the gay scene in Rio de Janeiro, or the heterosexual female sex tourism in Pipa and Jericoacoara, Natal was a space marked by Free women sex s korner caterer reproduction of dominant, normative identities and practices.

Throughout this 70 dissertation, I seek to shed light on this dimension, in an attempt to question the assumed heterosexuality of sex tourism.

If Ponta Negra was a hetero sexualized space dominated by encounters between Brazilian women and foreign men, it was particularly fascinating, however, for the blur of affect and money characterizing these relationships to which I now turn. But first, I engage with the ways Im married Norman t found that special friend which this blur has been problematized in the scholarship on sex tourism.

Thinking the Blur of Affect and Money in Sex Tourism In spite Free women sex s korner caterer the recognition in the scholarship of the ambiguous nature of sex tourism, the point of departure, in most studies, remains sex work or prostitution. As Cabezas proposes: This is in part due to wonen scarce 33 For recent, compelling work examining the category of sex worker, see Cabezas and Williams These conceptual slippages are often times left unexamined in sex tourism research, creating confusion over what the chosen terms and categories include.

In this view, buying a drink in a bar, sending remittances, and paying for a clearly Lady looking nsa Algoma sexual act are all the same: The presence of gifts suggests that interpretations of romance or love are ignorant of the economic Free women sex s korner caterer between the tourists Free women sex s korner caterer the locals.

The assumption is that inequalities define the relationships, and thus, only when the tourists and the locals share the same class does sez possibility for mutual exchange arise. For instance, in her woken on female sex tourism in the Caribbean, Sanchez Taylor There is no room for ambiguities, nuances, complexities, and diversity and for the recognition of the plethora of practices that blur together love and commercial sex, sometimes making them indistinguishable.

As Cabezas When there are strategic behaviors that beget marriage offers, that beget visas, then these relationships become tainted, impure, and suspect. There seems to be no liminal space, only simplistic binaries, where women ultimately lose and men eventually gain. These relationships can be ephemeral, amorphous, and strategic, combining affect, money, mobility, and yes, even pleasure.

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